"A trustworthy Observant friar told me, that two friars of that Order were in a ship going to Flanders, with about three hundred people on board, when there was eight days of great storm. One of the friars was a preacher and very devoted to St. Joseph, to whom he recommended himself with all his heart. Finally, the ship sank with all on board. The friar and his companion found themselves in the sea on a plank. They were three days on the plank, one on either side. They continued to recommend themselves to St. Joseph with the greatest faith. On the third day a very handsome youth appeared and greeting them with a happy face he said: 'God will help you brothers; do not fear'. Having said this, all three of them together with the plank found themselves on shore.
Kneeling down the friars then thanked the young man with great devotion. Then the preacher said: 'O most noble young man, I ask you for the love of God that you tell me who you are'. He replied: 'I am St. Joseph, the most worthy husband of the most blessed Mother of God, to whom you recommended yourselves so strongly. I was sent by the most kind Lord to save you. Know that if it had not been so, you would have been drowned with all the others. Know also that just as we three, that is the most kind Son of God, his sweetest Mother and I, lived together till my death, so we are now in Paradise one in soul and body, above the glory of all the others, since I rose with Christ, as Scripture says: many bodies of the saints rose with him etc. Recently I asked the Divine Infinite Clemency that whoever recites daily for a whole year seven Our Fathers and seven Hail Marys in honour of the seven sorrows that I suffered in the world, will obtain all graces from God, because this is just'.
Then the brother said: 'O most noble husband of the Mother of God, I beg you tell me what those seven sorrows were.' St. Joseph replied: 'Willingly'.
'The first was when, shortly after I had married the most blessed Virgin, observing some signs of her pregnancy, not knowing the secret mystery of the Incarnation and not thinking that she would ever have children, I experienced such sorrow that tongue could not describe it. I loved her so much and did not wish to accuse her because she would have been stoned. It seemed intolerable to me to accept her as she was. She could see that I did not regard her favorably. She did not want to tell me anything, not knowing whether it was God's will that I be told and she did nothing but cry. In the end it pleased the Lord to have me understand the truth, by sending his angel.
The second was when on the night of the Nativity of the Son of God I found myself in the stable without any human assistance. Although I accepted seeing the Son of God with great desire and once I had seen him had great consolation, still I experienced great sorrow in not being able to honour that most noble birth as it deserved.
The third was when he was circumcised on the eighth day. I saw that poor most innocent little boy cry and he looked at his Mother, as little boys do, almost calling for help, and she could not offer it, because the law had to be observed. She cried and we all cried out of compassion, thus this was a great sorrow for me.
The fourth was when on the fortieth day, having completed the period of purification, when we had spent so much time in discomfort, we were happy and contented to have the company of the most noble Son of God, and entering the Temple, Holy Simeon said to his Mother that the sword of his Passion would pierce her heart. Then she began to cry, and I cried too wounded by immense sorrow thinking that that poor little boy was so recently born and yet there was already talk of his Passion.
The fifth was when I had to flee into Egypt, being poor with a young wife, considering the difficulties of the dangerous journey and fearing that the little boy would be taken and killed and thus I experienced very great and inexpressible sorrow.
The sixth was when on the return from Egypt, when the little boy was so big we could not carry him, nor could he walk, so that we experienced great anxiety and fatigue on that journey. Then the sorrow was rekindled when we heard that Archaelaus reigned in place of Herod his father. I experienced great fear and sorrow.
The seventh was when he had reached twelve years of age and stayed in Jerusalem and we lost him for three days. This sorrow was greater than all the others.' Having said these things St. Joseph disappeared."
At some point the devotion evolved to include the corresponding joys Joseph experienced with these sorrows.
PRAYERS
Meditate upon the sorrow and corresponding joy while saying the prayers.
The reflections are optional along with adding a Glory Be after the Our Father and Hail Mary. The reflections were written by Ven. Januarius Sarnelli (d. 1744).
[O chaste Husband of Mary most holy, glorious St. Joseph, great was the trouble and anguish of your heart when you wert minded to put away privately your inviolate Wife, yet your joy was unspeakable when the surpassing mystery of the Incarnation was made known to you by the Angel!
By this sorrow and this joy, we beseech you to comfort our souls, both now and in the sorrows of our final hour, with the joy of a good life and a holy death after the pattern of your own, in the arms of Jesus and Mary.]
Our Father, Hail Mary, [Glory Be]
Second Sorrow:
The Poverty of Jesus' Birth
(
Luke 2:7)
[O most blessed Patriarch, glorious St. Joseph, who was chosen to be the foster father of the Word made flesh, your sorrow at seeing the Child Jesus born in such poverty was suddenly changed into heavenly exultation when you did hear the angelic hymn and beheld the glories of that resplendent night.
By this sorrow and this joy, we implore you to obtain for us the grace to pass over from life’s pathway to hear the angelic songs of praise, and to rejoice in the shining splendor of celestial glory.]
Our Father, Hail Mary, [Glory Be]
[O glorious St. Joseph you faithfully obeyed the law of God, and your heart was pierced at the sight of the Precious Blood that was shed by the Infant Savior during His Circumcision, but the Name of Jesus gave you new life and filled you with quiet joy.
By this sorrow and this joy, obtain for us the grace to be freed from all sin during life, and to die rejoicing, with the holy Name of Jesus in our hearts and on our lips.]
Our Father, Hail Mary, [Glory Be]
Fourth Sorrow:
The Prophecy of Simeon
(
Luke 2:34)
Fourth Joy:
The Salvation of the World
(
Luke 2:38)
[O most faithful Saint who shared the mysteries of our Redemption, glorious St. Joseph, the prophecy of Simeon regarding the sufferings of Jesus and Mary caused you to shudder with mortal dread, but at the same time filled you with a blessed joy for the salvation and glorious resurrection which, he foretold, would be attained by countless souls.
By this sorrow and this joy, obtain for us that we may be among the number of those who, through the merits of Jesus and the intercession of Mary the Virgin Mother, are predestined to a glorious resurrection.]
Our Father, Hail Mary, [Glory Be]
Fifth Joy:
The Overthrow of the Idols of Egypt
(
Isaiah 19:1)
[O most watchful Guardian of the Incarnate Son of God, glorious St. Joseph, what toil was your in supporting and waiting upon the Son of the most high God, especially in the flight into Egypt! Yet at the same time, how you did rejoice to have always near you God Himself, and to see the idols of the Egyptians fall prostrate to the ground before Him.
By this sorrow and this joy, obtain for us the grace of keeping ourselves in safety from the infernal tyrant, especially by flight from dangerous occasions; may every idol of earthly affection fall from our hearts; may we be wholly employed in serving Jesus and Mary, and for them alone may we live and happily die.]
Our Father, Hail Mary, [Glory Be]
Sixth Joy:
Life with Jesus and Mary in Nazareth
(
Luke 2:39)
[O glorious St. Joseph, an angel on earth, you did marvel to see the King of Heaven obedient to your commands, but your consolation in bringing Jesus out of the land of Egypt was troubled by your fear of Archelaus; nevertheless, being assured by the Angel, you dwelt in gladness at Nazareth with Jesus and Mary.
By this sorrow and this joy, obtain for us that our hearts may be delivered from harmful fears, so that we may rejoice in peace of conscience and may live in safety with Jesus and Mary and may, like you, die in their company.]
Our Father, Hail Mary, [Glory Be]
Seventh Sorrow:
Losing Jesus in Jerusalem
(
Luke 2:45)
Seventh Joy:
Finding of Jesus in the Temple
(
Luke 2:46)
[O glorious St. Joseph, pattern of all holiness, when you did lose, through no fault of your own, the Child Jesus, you sought Him sorrowing for the space of three days, until with great joy you did find Him again in the Temple, sitting in the midst of the doctors.
By this sorrow and this joy, we supplicate you, with our hearts upon our lips, to keep us from ever having the misfortune to lose Jesus through mortal sin; but if this supreme misfortune should befall us, grant that we may seek Him with unceasing sorrow until we find Him again, ready to show us His great mercy, especially at the hour of death; so that we may pass over to enjoy His presence in Heaven; and there, in company with you, may we sing the praises of His Divine mercy forever.]
Our Father, Hail Mary, [Glory Be]